Genesis 32:22-30
The same night he got up and took his two wives, his two maids, and his eleven children, and crossed the ford of the Jabbok. He took them and sent them across the stream, and likewise everything that he had. Jacob was left alone; and a man wrestled with him until daybreak. When the man saw that he did not prevail against Jacob, he struck him on the hip socket; and Jacob’s hip was put out of joint as he wrestled with him. Then he said, “Let me go, for the day is breaking.” But Jacob said, “I will not let you go, unless you bless me.” So he said to him, “What is your name?” And he said, “Jacob.”
Then the man said, “You shall no longer be called Jacob, but Israel, for you have striven with God and with humans, and have prevailed.” Then Jacob asked him, “Please tell me your name.” But he said, “Why is it that you ask my name?” And there he blessed him. So Jacob called the place Peniel, saying, “For I have seen God face to face, and yet my life is preserved.”
This can, of course, go far beyond individuals. We have a worst case scenario right now, where certain leaders – lusting after real-estate deals and Syria’s oil fields – have used their power to throw the Kurdish people – including innocent women and children – into a nightmare where they are being murdered for no good reason whatsoever – except that rich, white, powerful men say so.
These arrogant, greedy folks have always existed – we’re just starting to name them as such these days.
The Old Testament has several instances of this behavior – “power” generally meant life or death power in biblical times – and there are puzzling instances of God actually favoring these scoundrels.
The most famous, of course, is the much beloved King David who saw Bathsheba bathing and decided he would have her for himself. When he found that she was already married, he simply arranged to have her husband killed in battle. You can do that when you’re king. He’s still Israel’s “greatest king” and God’s much blessed son.
There are several other instances, such as David’s son, Solomon who allowed the worship of foreign gods in the Temple – where others who would later do the same suffered severely from God’s wrath. He still is known as the wise, and blessed, King Solomon.
The biggest of these scoundrels though has got to be the “hero” of today’s story – Jacob. Jacob, son of Isaac, grandson of Abraham, who lied and cheated his way through much of his life and still God loved him to pieces.
It was Jacob, the younger twin, who took advantage of his father’s blindness to cheat his brother Esau out of the birthright blessing that was rightfully his as the elder brother. When Jacob ran off to live with his uncle, Laban, out of fear of Esau’s justified wrath, he ended that relationship by tricking Laban out of a huge chunk of his flocks and then lying about the theft of Laban’s household gods.
Running from Laban, he could only run back toward his brother Esau and that is where we start today. Jacob has been given word that Esau is coming to meet him – and he doesn’t know if that’s in war or friendship.
They stop for the night and – Jacob, being Jacob – he sends the women and children ahead, over the river, and stays behind alone. Apparently we’re not supposed to notice that this maneuver puts the women and children in Esau’s path first while Jacob is left safely on the other side.
Then comes one of the most perplexing stories in the Old Testament – Jacob wrestling with an angel. To give Jacob his due – he’s not totally a monster, just an weak opportunist -- he is trying to return home – with everything that word means to him. He wants to go home – but knows that when he was there he was a spoiled little “mama’s boy” who was willing to cheat and steal to get what he wanted. He is well aware there is probably not a warm welcome awaiting him. He can’t go back, and he fears going forward. He's stuck.
Here in this “in between” place – hovering somewhere between home and his years of running and hiding – Jacob makes a choice to become a different man.
Although the scripture refers to the midnight visitor as an angel or even as Godself, there is internal evidence here that suggests this story was already ancient long before Abraham left Ur and that the visitor was actually a demon. The visitor’s insistence that they have to stop at daybreak suggests a demon, who are known to not tolerate sunlight, as well as Jacob’s insistence on knowing the visitor’s name, since in ancient days knowledge of an entity’s name was thought to confer power over that entity.
Here, after all the years of running, Jacob finally faces his demon – both literally and figuratively. And he wins – not by theft or trickery as she's always done, but by persistence and not giving up. Here Jacob finally looks God “face to face” and lives.
And from this point on Jacob is a different man. No more lying, no more stealing (that we know of). Here, from this day forward, Jacob is no longer Jacob, but “Israel”, because he “wrestled with God.” Here he becomes the much beloved patriarch and ultimately, father of the twelve tribes of Israel.
The traditional answer to the perplexing stories of God seemingly helping cheats and tricksters along is that God wants to show that God can use even the jerks in life to fulfill God’s purpose. Maybe.
Or maybe this type of bible story is simply trying to explain that somehow since God was OK with the fact that some of the Hebrew heroes were really jerks so the people didn’t have to feel bad about them. Maybe.
Or maybe Jacob went on being a jerk for so long because he was really good at it and before today’s story had never reached that low ebb where he could finally see God’s face and try a new way. Or maybe all three of these explanations.
Or maybe ..... the answer is as simple as this: God loves us all. Heroes and cowards, peasants and kings. God loves us all and will continue to give us chances to redeem ourselves from our bad behaviors. Some of us just need more redeeming than others.
And it may not be the ones we think.